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What is motherland
1. One's native land.
2. The land of one's ancestors.
3. A country considered as the origin of something.

Motherland
1. The country of one's ancestors.
2. The country of one's birth.
3. Country of origin.

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“Patriotism can vary from a mild to a very strong motivation, but there's nothing really of it that makes it inherently good or bad. The virtues or vices are what patriotism may lead to, not itself.”

“I would say it's a form of tribalism that is neither exceptional nor praiseworthy. There isn't that much difference between "Rah Rah, we're the best!" nationalism, and the "we're the best" of racialists, ideological warriors, elitist intellectuals, and militant religious and atheist activists. Group loyalty and holding up your social group as superior seems to be pretty hardwired thinking, but that doesn't mean we should praise it.”

"Patriotism is when love of your own people comes first; nationalism, when hate for people other than your own comes first" - Charles de Gaulle

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